30 seconds...

When I began to write, I promised to share most of my experiences, regardless of how good, bad or ugly they were. So here it is… and I’m sorry!

Today marked another day that my lovely wife and I had to make one of those parental decisions that are made knowing how much it will hurt us in the short-term while hoping for a much greater gain in the long-term: Our son, Brayden, was circumcised, “cut”, had 5 inches taken off of his woo-woo (well, that will be his excuse when he grows up; I know I have used that excuse on several occasions; yes, I know, too much informationJ).

Now, many of you may think that this decision was made based on our religious beliefs, ethnicity, parental recommendations, etc. Although all of the above may have played a role in our decision, the underlying reason was cleanliness. Well, that and the fact that I just didn’t know better.

Most recent research documents that we studied supported our decision. The professional recommendations were 2:1, where majority supported circumcision. As for friends and family, well, majority, including those that were not “cut”, supported our decision.

Well, after witnessing the events today, I’ll have to honest: Knowing what I know now, I’m not sure why anyone in the right mind would want to go through it. It is by no means a pretty procedure. I had my eyes closed and mind filled with prayers throughout the process, which only took 30 seconds, literally. However, it is embedded in my mind forever!

Now, I wonder if Brayden will grow up and appreciate what we have done. I’m hoping that he will forget the whole thing ever happened by the time he realizes what has taken place. I have a feeling that some of my friends may not let this one go and tell Brayden about it.

By the way, I am super proud of my five and a half year old daughter for her understanding. Contrary to most recommendations, I decided to explain to my little princess what circumcision was and surprisingly she took it very well and understood the process. Let’s just say that she is a lot stronger than her dad is; must have taken it after her mother.

Thanks for reading,

Armin

PS. My wife was an absolute rock today; she was my pillar! I think I was a little squeamish! Rumour has it that the nurses and the doctor were worried about me; can’t see why J

This is Brayden @ 8 days; trust me, my baby was not smiling today :( (picture: courtesy of Sukhi Ghuman Photography).